The Effect of Facebook on Relationships

When Mark Zuckerberg invented Facebook in 2004, he never could have predicted that it would reach over 800 million users in seven years.¹ As forms of communication have evolved, two common elements that have improved are convenience and speed. Facebook has combined both of these concepts, and now family members, friends, or business colleagues can stay updated on each other in real time. The use of exterior forms of technology, such as laptops and smart phones, allow Facebook to be utilized anywhere. For instance, 28% of Facebook users ranging from age eighteen to thirty-four check Facebook before getting out of bed in the morning.² Just as Facebook has been influenced by previous communication technologies, it has had an even greater effect on modern culture. Through its vast amount of accessible information and convenient usage, Facebook has affected society by maintaining close contact between relatives and friends, both continuing and terminating love relationships, as well as allowing businesses to promote themselves to their target audience.

Prior to Facebook, communication was not as efficient or instantaneous. It seems bizarre to think back to a time where the primary way to contact someone was by writing a letter. Since that time, the speed of communication has greatly improved, culminating with the instantaneous updates provided by Facebook. As humans, the goal with any new form of technology is to improve upon previous models. In particular, speeding up communication has always been a focus with new technology. Speed of communication not only pleases consumers, but it also enables companies to brag. For example, Georgia Tech currently has the second fastest internet connection in the country.³ This is not only valuable to the students and faculty, but the fact that it is mentioned on tours and during orientation proves that improved speed is an essential component that drives new technologies.

Not only was communication slower and less efficient prior to Facebook, but the amount of information readily available on each person was significantly lacking as well. Besides looking up a person’s address or phone number, further information about them was acquired by direct communication or word of mouth. In addition to personal information, details about events or meetings had trouble being relayed quickly, which presented problems in last-minute changes. Facebook represents the peak of information availability, and users can become addicted to its seemingly know-all power. A clip from a recent How I Met Your Mother episode, “Mystery vs. History”, displays the current necessity to research others through technology.⁴ The clip involves the show’s main character, Ted Mosby, meeting a new woman who he will soon take out for dinner. Instantly, his friends reach for their smartphones to explore the internet for any unexpected or unusual information about Ted’s date. Ted opts for mystery to drive their relationship and does not partake in researching her. However, the fact that his friends resort to background checks on his dates, past and present, support society’s current addiction and desire for an abundance of easily accessible information. This desire has fueled technology in recent decades, and it has also enabled Facebook to maintain close relationships between relatives or friends.

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Without Facebook, families, friends, and colleagues would find it difficult to maintain close contact with each other. Since one in every thirteen people on Earth has a Facebook account, users are capable of connecting with people from all facets of their lives. In only twenty minutes, Facebook experiences over one million links shared, three million messages sent, and two million friend requests accepted.⁵ This constant flow of information proves Facebook’s impact as a leading form of electronic communication in the twenty-first century. Last year, John Watson of New York encountered his very own Facebook miracle. Watson had been searching for his daughter, who he left forty years ago, for twenty years before stumbling upon her Facebook page. He originally left her because of post-traumatic stress from the Vietnam War, but he sincerely regretted the decision and spent decades trying to find her. Luckily, his daughter was very forgiving and was thrilled to be reunited with her father.⁶ Watson also had the benefit of meeting his son-in-law and four grandchildren, an opportunity that never would have presented itself without Facebook. Aside from relatives and friends, Facebook has also revolutionized the dating world with both positive and negative outcomes.

By implementing its techniques of connecting users through vast methods of communication, Facebook has been beneficial to both starting and maintaining love relationships. Two people are not considered officially dating if it has not been posted on Facebook. The fact that people turn to a user’s Facebook page to make the final say on their love life displays the dependent relationship between modern culture and Facebook. Asking another person about their current relationship status can be an uncomfortable encounter, but Facebook provides clarity on this matter. Similar to John Watson’s story, Facebook has manufactured relationships by reuniting old friends from school, as well as suggesting future friend requests through mutual friends. Moreover, if a couple is experiencing a long-distance relationship, Facebook allows them to stay close through instant messaging, sharing pictures, and even video calls. Even though these features are available in other forms of communication, only Facebook provides the detail and supplemental information that can be found in one’s profile.

Nevertheless, Facebook has been known to dismantle dating relationships just as well as it promotes them. According to a 2010 survey conducted by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, two-thirds of lawyers said that, “Facebook was the ‘primary source’ of evidence in divorce proceedings”.⁷ This wasn’t only applied to cases of infidelity, but also cases of child custody. For example, one parent claimed to not use any illegal drugs, but boasts of marijuana use were found on his Facebook page. Furthermore, suspicions of one’s spouse can lead to stalking their Facebook page or even jealousy of their significant other. In this context, Facebook’s plethora of available information becomes evidence instead of a user’s profile. When asked about Facebook’s influence on divorce, a spokesperson of Facebook said, “…Facebook is just a way to communicate, like letters, phone calls, and emails”.⁸ However, the accessibility of information in the latter forms of communication does not compare to that of Facebook.

Based on this accessibility of information, as well as the popularity of Facebook and the constant connection between users, events and groups have become effective tools in coordinating with larger masses of people. One serious instance occurred in Germany this past June as a result of a Hamburg girl forgetting about the importance of Facebook’s event privacy settings. A teenage girl, known as Thessa, posted an event on Facebook to invite a group of friends to her sixteenth birthday party. Unfortunately, she accidentally made the event public and allowed anyone to RSVP. Fifteen thousand users RSVP’d to the event and more than 1,500 showed up for Thessa’s party. One hundred police officers showed up to keep the crowd of teenagers and young adults under control, and the fire department even had to put out two fires. Just because Thessa made an honest mistake on Facebook, a riot nearly broke out in Hamburg. Luckily, no one was injured, and Thessa celebrated her birthday in secret with her grandparents. She even cancelled the event once she realized her mistake, but the damage was done and all of the guests showed up anyway.⁹ If Thessa was planning a party with older forms of communication, such as a sending out invitations by mail, this chaotic and unique circumstance never would have occurred. Even though Thessa experienced chaos from her mishap in creating an event, the capabilities of Facebook events and their ability to bring people together are clearly identified. However, most businesses that utilize Facebook would savor the response that Thessa received for her birthday party.

Aside from entertainment purposes, Facebook has been incorporated by businesses and even politicians as an effective method to reach their intended audience. Over one million entrepreneurs from 180 different countries have Facebook pages to facilitate their growth.¹⁰ Businesses constantly promote their Facebook pages because it is free advertising to their customers. Even with paid advertising on Facebook, the significant difference in expenses of advertising on Facebook compared to Google is an astounding 1:20.¹¹ By examining a user’s interests and biographical information, businesses can select who would most likely be interested in their product, and therefore ensure they are reaching their target audience. Likewise, political candidates utilize Facebook to promote their campaign and maintain interaction with voters. For instance, presidential candidate Mitt Romney has over 1.1 million users liking his Facebook page.¹² This means that all of them receive updates and can communicate with him throughout the campaign process. Even though Facebook’s effect on relationships is commonly associated with friends, family, etc., the business and advertising worlds have been successfully strengthening their ties with their consumers through Facebook.

Just as Facebook has developed from past forms of communication, it is continuously shaping how people connect with one another in the world today. By continuing trends of recent forms of technology, Facebook is one of the most efficient and convenient methods of communication ever developed. A user’s profile not only displays their interests and list of friends, but it enables them to communicate with these people in real time from virtually anywhere. Since Facebook has become such an integral part of society, it has revolutionized the ways we maintain relationships among our family and friends. These changes have been both positive and negative, especially in the case of relationships. Even though close contact is a benefit of Facebook’s networking, many still question the potential hazards of privacy, or lack of. As Facebook continues to represent the current form of communication for this generation, it is constantly shaping technology’s next great invention in the future.

Notes

1. Wyld, Adrian, “Facebook,” The New York Times, http://topics.nytimes.com/top/news/ mmmmmbusiness/companies/facebook_inc/index.html (accessed October 19, 2011).

2. Hepburn, Aden, “Facebook Statistics, Stats & Facts For 2011,” Digital Buzz Blog, mmmmmhttp://www.digitalbuzzblog.com/facebook-statistics-stats-facts-2011/ (accessed mmmmmNovember 5, 2011).

3. Woolley, Scott, “The world's fastest Internet access—who's got it?” CNN Money, mmmmmhttp://tech.fortune.cnn.com/2011/01/23/the-world%E2%80%99s-fastest-mmmmminternet-access%E2%80%94who%E2%80%99s-got-it/ (accessed October 15, mmmmm2011).

4. How I Met Your Mother. Season 7 Episode 6, first broadcast 17 October 2011 by CBS. mmmmmDirected by Craig Thomas and written by Carter Bays.

5. Hepburn, Aden, “Facebook: Facts & Figures For 2010,” Digital Buzz Blog, mmmmmhttp://www.digitalbuzzblog.com/facebook-statistics-facts-figures-for-2010/ mmmmm(accessed October 19, 2011).

6. “Father finds daughter on Facebook after 20 years,” ABC Local News, mmmmmhttp://abclocal.go.com/wabc/story?section=news/local&id=7739245 (accessed mmmmmOctober 19, 2011).

7. Adams, Richard, “Facebook a top cause of relationship trouble, say US lawyers,” The mmmmmGuardian, http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2011/mar/08/facebook-us-mmmmmdivorces (accessed November 10, 2011).

8. Ibid.

9. “Facebook party spins out of control,” MSNBC, http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/ mmmmm43284493/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/t/facebook-party-mmmmmspins-out-control/#.TqFEKN4g_UB (accessed October 19, 2011).

10. Hepburn, Aden, “Facebook: Facts & Figures for 2010.”

11. Anderson, Brian, “Facebook Advertising – What Makes It Unique?” Brian Anderson mmmmmMarketing, http://brian-anderson.us/facebook-advertising-unique-2.html mmmmm(accessed November 10, 2011).

12. Romney, Mitt, “Mitt Romney,” Facebook, http://www.facebook.com/mittromney mmmmm(accessed November 10, 2011).

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Relationship with Nintendo

Looking back on my childhood, one of my earliest recollections of technology was receiving a Nintendo Game Boy Color for my birthday. At the time, it was the hottest gift on the market, and I could not be more ecstatic. As the years passed, technology became more integrated into my life, and it extended into other facets beyond entertainment. In particular, I explored several forms of communication technology, including cell phones, email, instant messaging, etc. The use of calculators and computers for research soon became vital tools for school as well. My father has always been the technology expert in the house, and as a child I always turned to him for help. He was responsible for introducing newer forms of technology to our household, including the latest software for computers, iPods, and more efficient home appliances. Without him, my family and I may be several years behind the latest technological innovations. However, with rapid improvement and newer forms of technology over the past few years, he now occasionally turns to me to answer his questions. As a child growing up in a generation dominated by video games, I have seen Nintendo evolve from a simple form of entertainment to an electronic lifestyle that extends far beyond the world of video games.

As previously stated, one of my earliest memories of using technology was a Nintendo Game Boy Color. This and the Nintendo 64 became less of a hobby and more of an addiction for several kids in my neighborhood. Playing Nintendo became the top priority for them, and they resented doing schoolwork or any activity that prevented them from playing. For example, my neighbor was the same age as me and he played his Game Boy at the dinner table every day. It is appalling that he was more concerned with video games than socializing with his family. I personally never used these pieces of technology to that great of an extent, but I still remember riding my bike around town to play Nintendo at a friend’s house. Besides playing sports as a child, Nintendo was one of the primary ways that kids, including myself, socialized with their friends. Since we were willing to travel to play, one could say that Nintendo 64 had a controlling influence on our lives. However, it was only used as a basic gaming device and did not include various features found in later Nintendo consoles. The relative simplicity of Nintendo 64 and Game Boy parallel my relationship with technology at the time. Besides entertainment purposes or phone conversations, technology was not as significant in my life as it would later become.

After the Game Boy and Nintendo 64, Nintendo released a new gaming console called GameCube. This was a transitional system for Nintendo, with improvements being made in memory capacity, graphics, aesthetics of the product, and a wider array of games. GameCube achieved greater popularity and demand compared to Nintendo 64 and Game Boy, mainly due to the drastic upgrades in performance and variety of games. Nintendo’s introduction of more games coincides with Elizabeth Eisenstein’s argument in The Printing Revolution in Early Modern Europe. Eisenstein mentions that the printing press made texts more readily available to a wider spectrum of people. Everything from bibles to indulgences to maps was being published, which means that nearly everyone was directly or indirectly influenced by the printing press. Likewise, Nintendo expanded to a wider audience by presenting a greater amount of games available for GameCube. Similar to Nintendo 64, children in my neighborhood utilized GameCube as a social tool. It was evident that the technology around us was rapidly improving, but the relationship that I maintained did not change until a few years later.

In 2006, Nintendo released its latest game console, the Wii. This is considered to be their most innovative, entertaining, and state-of-the-art system yet. One of the more intriguing aspects of the Wii is its capabilities through Wi-Fi connection. The Wii allows one to play against friends, stream movies from Netflix, and even purchase classic Nintendo games. Just as Nintendo has utilized the internet more effectively in its latest game system, I have done the same through my own interaction with technology. As of late, the internet has played a more significant role in my life due to the convenience of smartphones and apps. In addition, since the Wii allows users to purchase former games from previous consoles, Nintendo has preserved the best of what their game systems have to offer. This relates to Once More to the Mountain, where Rosalind Williams and Charles McFarland return to the Bernese Alps after fifty-one years. The authors mention that even though methods of transportation have evolved since their last journey, some of the villages and towns have resisted building up larger developments to maintain their warm and intimate settings. Moreover, the fact that the Wii is Nintendo’s most complex and advanced model yet also relates to how I’ve matured up to this point. Just as the Wii has several new features, including motion-sensing technology and online capabilities, I have garnered new skills myself. These include maintaining a job, driving a car, and even surviving at college six hundred miles from home. Even though Nintendo is no longer the neighborhood gathering it once was, it still reflects how crucial technology has become in my life and how it is utilized in society today.

Growing up in my generation means that Nintendo was not merely a source to play video games, but a representation of how technology has affected our lives. In addition to the technical improvements Nintendo has made over the years, they have also extended their products to a wider audience. A decade ago, few people other than teenagers or elementary school children could be found with a Game Boy in hand or playing Nintendo 64. Nevertheless, through the introduction of adult-friendly games and programs, people of all ages can be found playing the Wii. One of these programs is the WiiFit, which is utilized for exercise and has the capability to track the user’s progress. Even though I have continuously played Nintendo over the past decade, their products have also shaped the surrounding culture. This has been driven by the desire and expectation to improve upon what already exists. With fierce competition, including Microsoft and Sony, Nintendo has risen to the occasion with their revolutionary motion-sensing technology, Wi-Fi capabilities, and additional innovations. That being said, Nintendo has not only taken feedback from the culture it is a part of, but it has also influenced the lives of millions of users around the world. I, a mere one of these users, can say that Nintendo tells the story of my relationship with technology, as well as provides a concrete example of how technology affects culture.

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Guide to Electronic Presentation

Guide:

For our group presentation we focused on the electronic aspect of WOVEN.  Specifically on how electronic communication influences our society and our decisions.  We expanded on electronic communication by addressing the impact of Facebook, smart phones, music publicity, web comics, and finally YouTube.  These different categories of electronic communication can be easily related to one another.  It is easy to see how all of these relate to the electronic aspect of WOVEN as well as other forms such as oral and visual considering we are communicating over websites and such.  Also, it is obvious to see how the written aspect is incorporated considering our topics cover communication.

For our presentation, we used prezi to easily convey the purpose of our presentation.  We are addressing what I talked about above in various forms of multimedia such as YouTube videos, pictures, as well as the design and layout of our project.  Each one of us will elaborate on one of the five topics listed above and will provide time for questions concerning our individual papers or the presentation as a whole.

At the end of the presentation, we, as a group, hope you understand why we categorize these five topics under the central theme of electronic communication, and also how we relate them to the other forms of communication that WOVEN offers such as Oral and Visual.  We have included a list of resources in the comments that are incorporated in our presentation.  We hope you enjoyed!

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Writers and their Audience

In my experience of writing and reading papers, I have come to the conclusion that the audience you write to is very important in many different ways.  When it comes down to who you will be writing to, the author needs to think as to how he is going to write the paper because people have varying knowledge about different subjects and writers need to take that into consideration as a means of attracting the readers attention, furthering the readers knowledge, or helping the reader with research.  When writing about science and technology, there should be many publications but ones that address different knowledge levels about the subject.  I think writers should write about whatever they want to.  If they like to be more personal in their writing and like the reader to understand the subject more for a first time then they should do that.  Scientists should record their findings even though they are not the best in conveying the findings so personally.  Their findings regardless of the degree of comprehensiveness are important because it furthers science and the future.  


When someone writes about science and technology, that writer needs to be aware of his material and to whom he is addressing.  The material may be very general or specific which makes comprehension of the material a key point when writing to an audience.  In my opinion, every writer should have his/her own target crowd to write to so they know how informative their piece can be.  For example, scientists usually write about theses, and in those writings, there are usually many difficult concepts and words that regular people are not familiar with.  Therefore it is logical for scientists to direct their writings to other scientists, who can expand on their theses, or to researches who are writing important documents that are for educational purposes.  But where does that leave the regular people who do not have much knowledge in the field?  In my opinion, when it comes to this matter of writing to people with little to no background knowledge then writers with good personal skills that write about the basics of that topic should be used.  Because they attract the reader into the subject and not confuse them.  If readers like the topic then they can progress to the rigors or reading scientists research and findings.  This just provides a good segway to the harder material.  These are my opinions on audience and writings.

Writing about Science and Technology

            There are many questions surrounding writings of science and technology. Many people have many different views on this issue. These views stem from different aspects, such as the audience of the writing. The writings can be geared toward a certain group, which would lead to diversity in opinion about them. The audience is a big determining factor in writing because writers have many different reasons for their writing. They can write to inform a certain group of people about something they are not experts in, or they could write to inform experts in a field about new developments or improvements. The problem comes in someone who is not of the target or intended audience reads one of these writings and is not able to comprehend. A paper by a scientist can be geared toward other scientists. In this kind of situation, the writer would assume some sort of knowledge in the field. Another situation is where a write writes to inform people who do not have any significant knowledge in something. In this situation an expert in the field would not find the writing interesting and would choose not to read it.

 In my opinion, experts in a certain field should be the ones to write about their field. The examples of target audiences show how there can be a disparity in the reception of the writing. To avoid this, these writings can be modified in several different ways. Scientists and journalists can make sure to explicitly state the target audience of the writing in order to avoid the problem that comes up when people who are not in the target audience read them. Another way to fix this problem would be for these scientific and technology experts to standardize their writing so that they are able to reach a broad audience without discriminating. In order to reach this broader spectrum, technology and science writings should be modified so that everyone will gain the enjoyment or satisfaction they want from reading the writing.

Target audiences and the structure of papers

When people write informative papers about science and technology, a major factor that influences how they lay out their information and how it is worded is audience. A target audience must be chosen and the writing must be focused around the chosen group (or groups) of people. For example, a scientist writing a paper exposing his or her findings will be directed at other scientists, and will be written accordingly. A scientist will assume his or her audience knows the concepts behind the paper, and therefore will be able to follow the complex material that is covered in the paper. A scientist will not waste time explaining the basic concepts behind his work, when he/she knows that the targeted audience already has all the knowledge required to understand the published work. Someone from a different audience, without a scientific background, would most likely not understand what is being covered in the paper, and, as such, would not read it.

Someone else, such as a historian writing a paper intended to be published for profit, his target audience will be more of the general population. His paper will cover more of the basic concepts behind his work, and perhaps not go as in-depth into the findings as a scientific paper would. Because of this, someone specialized in the field of study the published work covers will not be as interested, as it contains a lot of information that he already knows. Of course, these publications have different end goals. A scientist publishing a scientific paper probably wants to get it reviewed by peers in order to advance knowledge in his particular field, while the historian writing something to be published for profit wants to spread some general knowledge (usually) to the public. Therefore, when writing something to be published, it is important to take into account the targeted audience, as it will determine the content and writing style of the paper.